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What you can expect to receive
- You will be given full board and lodgings.
- You will have a private room of your own, and will be able to share in the life of
the family you are with.
- You will have time to study for 'cultural and professional improvement' at a local
language school.
- All studies will be paid out of your own money, and in your own time. Language schools
offer very reasonable rates for students.
Daily schedule
- Duties should generally not exceed 5 hours a day, unless other arrangements have
been made with the family, for which you should earn more money.
- You should have at least 1 full day free per week, plus Sunday to attend a place
of worship.
- You may be required to 'baby-sit' at least one evening of the week, for the parents
to spend the evening out.
- Create a time-table, to make sure you are clear about your duties.
- Spend your initial period of time in the family, talking through the routines of
the day, and what you are expected to do. Find out how to use machinery, e.g. washing
machine, tumble dryer, dish-washer.
Insurance
- You will not require medical insurance in this country, and can register with a local
doctor to receive treatment. However, dental treatment will have to be paid for out
of your own money.
Arriving in England
- On arrival, the family will allow you to telephone your parents, to let them know
that you have arrived safely. After that, please remember that telephoning abroad
is very expensive, and that you must ask the family before making a call. It would
be an advantage to buy a mobile phone here.
Culture
- The culture in Britain is different to your own, and you may want to experience this
in different ways. Please do not sit for long periods of time in front of the Television
or computer, or withdraw to your room for long periods writing letters to your friends
and family. Try to involve yourself, quietly, in the life of the family, and take
opportunities offered to you.
- It will be appreciated if you allow some privacy to husband and wife, particularly
in the evenings when the husband returns from work and might wish to discuss daily
events with his wife. This is an ideal time to become more involved with the children,
or general management of household duties.
- English food may be different from that which you are accustomed. Lunch generally
consists of small snacks such as sandwiches, fruit or cheese, with the main meal
served during the evening. If you wish to have a more substantial meal at lunch-time,
ask the lady of the family if you can cook something yourself.
- Please be sure to take every opportunity to experience and enjoy the spiritual, educational
and cultural climate of Great Britain. This will make your stay most enjoyable and
you will benefit in different ways from the experience.
Free-time
- During your free time you will want to spend some time with friends, enjoying different
aspects of this country. Please let the family know generally of your whereabouts,
and the time you will return. Try to be back at a reasonable hour, to suit the needs
of the family.
- You may ask for maps of the local area, and bus or train time-tables, to visit the
local scenes.
- If you make new friendships, please be very discreet and do not give your telephone
number and address to strangers. Always ask the family if they do not mind you giving
their home number to your new acquaintances.
- Please ask permission from the family before asking a friend home.
Communication
- When you first arrive in the family it may be a little difficult to understand the
common form of spoken English. Do not worry about having to understand everything.
Politely ask the speaker to talk a little slower, to be fully understood. Most English
people will be happy to help in any way possible.
- At the end of each day, talk about the work you have achieved, and the time taken
to do it.
- Always try to find some time to talk about your personal needs, and theirs. Communication
is the most important thing, to ensure a successful placement in a family. If you
are unsure about something, or are feeling worried, try to share your concerns.